Everyone must has experienced in love or like someone in their life. Even you could not be with that person but you tried your best to attract that person's heart. Well, as some people have said, we could not force a person to fall in love with you. How many times you tried to get him/her, if they do not willing to love you.. You still could not be in love. But, before that. Do you know what is love? How do you define love? How much knowledge and understanding that you gained? Certain people will define it in any kind of ways based on their experiences or maybe from other sources such as through their readings or friends. Therefore, I want to share with you guys my definition of love based on my experience also from other sources.
1. Love is like a tree.
Why tree? Because it not just suddenly grow like a tall tree without you tried to take care of it from a small bean. You could not just ignore the tree until it dead and that time then you realized you have lost a "golden tree".
What is the relation between the tree and love? As I have mentioned, tree will not grow taller if you don't put any effort to take care of it. Thus, you have to be patience and think a way how to make the tree grows well and healthy. The same thing when involving in love. You should be able to produce a healthy relationship just like a tree.
How to maintain a healthy relationship? Just lke a tree, you always make sure that the tree is enough water and sunlight, a good environment as to remain grow. In relationship, you should do something like that too. You must fill the relationship with a lot of love, passion, understanding, protecting, tolerate, think optimistic and etc for you to maintain it. Sound seems easy right? But, actually not as you expected. It takes time to go along with a person. Sometimes, this might fail because they do not patience to each other and just only think about happiness, not the path to get there.
2. Love is like gadget.
Gadget? Things that very often we use in our daily life. When we wake up and before we go to sleep, we would spend our time with the gadget by social online or maybe some of us might read ebooks for making them feel sleepy.
However, why gadget? As you all know, we could not leave our gadget in our life except while we are sleeping. So, why could we do the same habit or routine just like that with our partner? In short, means we also could not leave without them in our life. This would make the relationship become more serious and our partner could appeciate us more. I know it is hard to make it reality bacause not all of us would meet a person or partner which really understand. They might think we are too busy for their attention instead of building our life.
Thus, how about your gadget then?? Does it takes your attention? If you are willing to spend your time with gadget, why would you could make time with your partner? A person who really into love with you might say that you are actually giving thousands excuses. Do you get that? The point here, if you could do with things that do not have any physical emotion, mean that you could also do the same thing with a person which has the physical emotion. That is why I'm relating the love with gadget where you could not leave without them.
3. Love is time.
The time is clicking everyday, minutes, seconds and hours. Same with love. Everytime we want to feel be in love. We want to fill every moments with our partner and relationship. But, sometimes not every couples value or appeciate their time together. They do not even feel how if one day he/she might leave you? Or he/she might cheat on you?
That's why when in relationship, in love, you should appeciate the time with your partner cause you will never know how long do both of you would be together. Fill most of the time with them, make a lot of memories together and try to attach without any doubt. Usually a relationship would end up frustly because of they do not put the effort to value the time together. Sadly, when both of you are leaving, I'm pretty sure that you regret because of the time. You might say that you want to getback and put a lot of memories together.
So, my point of view here, time is love and love is time which they are connected. Time would not wait for you except you chase the time. Don't take it to lightly or ignore it cause people would not always stay by your side. People always come and go. You should accept the faith. You should accept the reality.
That is the 3 main definition of love that I can share with you guys based on my own experiences also from others or my friends. Actually, a lot of love definition that you can explore out there from different perception. You can also find out by reading some reference books on love, if you are really interested in understanding about it. From my opinion, before you want to love someone you have to try understand the mean of love. This is because, I always observe some people choose love due to they like the person very much without deeply understand about the feelings. At last, they felt disappointed because they have already gave their feelings towards the person. Love is not only a feelings but it is a knowledge too. If you really understand, you may not have any problem to love or unloved by someone in your life. Well, everything come from yourself to change them. We cannot change people's attitude or life, but can do it for ourselves. Take it, or leave it. Thank you guys for reading!!!! I hope you guys will find your soul mate one day.
Sincerely by,
-pelangindah97-
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